friendships and relationships are about working things out together.
a two way thing. nothing will ever change if, the work is just a one sided affair.
i guess, if you really love and care for someone and want a lasting relationship, you need to convince them to work together to create a happier healthier relationship. if the opposite party, isn't keen, you jolly well know how much this relationship is worth to them.
one failed relationship doesn't mean the end of the world.
i'll have to look up and look forth.
i know i've got some stuff wrong. i guess this makes a good learning platform.
which spells for "women are from venus, men are from mars".
spotting quotes from goodreads.
feels like what I am always doing:
“Because she is afraid of not being supported,
she unknowingly pushes away the support she needs.”
―
John Gray,
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
finally, a quote i wish all men could read and remember,
“When a man can listen to woman's feelings without getting angry and frustrated,
he gives her a wonderful gift.
He makes it safe for her to express herself.
The
more she is able to express herself, the more she feels heard and
understood,
the more she is able to give a man the loving
trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement
that he needs.”
―
John Gray,
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
