it seems as though the masculine species have an insensitive manner of lending a helping hand. they need to take sole ownership of the matter, put down any and every opinion, and take feedback in a negative light.
while the feline species react in the most passive way possible. in a nutshell a female's approach: take it or leave it. because i really don't care.
so in future, if you might need help at all - such as fixing a light bulb or help with a document on the computer - get psychologically prepared for what happens next, and watch what you say. the last thing you want is your file to get scraped off, or your bulb to be shattered into shit-bits.
:-)
